Urban Suburban Mommy

  • The Struggle is Real
  • Domestic Goodness
    • DIY
    • Delicious Dishes
  • Urban Suburban Mommy
    • The Best You
    • Urban Suburban Daddy
    • Mommy Approved
      • Sponsored Post
  • Bon Voyage
  • Fame & Fam
  • 10 Questions
  • FML Mommy
  • About
    • Contributors
    • Contact us
    • Home
    • Write for us
    • Work With Us
  • Elisa Krovblit Keay

Tag Archives: featuredxx

10 Questions with Child Entertainers Sonshine and Broccoli

Posted on January 8, 2016 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in 10 Questions With .
FEATURE Sonshine and Brocoli

Your kids love to be entertained, but you can’t be the feature attraction 24/7. Birthday parties are an exceptionally good time to hire entertainment. Some entertainers are better than others. Some really know what will keep your child entranced – and how long they can hold that attention before that little body can’t contain it any longer. So what to look for in an entertainer? We caught up with professional child entertainers Sonshine and Broccoli to ask the questions you know you want to know.

Sonshine and Broccoli

1. Why are musical shows engaging for children?

I think we all remember our first concert. Mine ( Sonshine ) was the beach boys. Musical shows are extremely engaging for all kids, from the first clap, to the head bop, to the jump. Kids find music a freedom of their own expression.

2. What time of day is best for keeping kids interested in the performance?

I would say first thing in the morning or after nap time.

3.  Where do you get the energy to entertain kids on a continual basis?

We could be having the worst day but the second we are on stage rockin’ out to an audience of kids, life is just great. The energy truly comes from them. Kids are excited , intrigued and engaged. We often feed off of their energy.

4. How do you know when you are losing the attention span of a child – are there signs?

Ohhh yes. Big signs.

We can plan a show one way and totally decide to change it part way through depending on the age and types of kids in the audience. Sonshine and Broccoli have been called “The Kid Whispers.” There is nothing better than getting their attention from the very first song. We have found that keeping the show very upbeat and interactive works great for us.

5. Should entertainment be at the beginning, middle or end of a party?

Entertainment should be after the first half an hour of a party. Let your guest come in – leave some time for the stragglers – and within 30 to 40 min of the called time it’s great to bring out the entertainment.

6. What size party works best with entertainment?

It completely depends on the party. For more intimate parties, 20 kids is great. For larger parties or events we bring equipment, plug in and rock out to a huge crowd.

performing - sonshine and broccoli

7. Can you customize a show to my child’s age group?

Yes of course. Recently we performed where we were given very little information about a show. The kids happened to be much older than our normal audience. We quickly adjusted our set list and the kids, all the way up to 15, had a blast. We always have tricks up our sleeve.

8. Do you need a large space to have performers at a child’s birthday party?

Not at all. Any performer should be able to accommodate your space. I always say whatever you are comfortable with.

9. What can parents do to make the entertainment part go over well? Should it be hyped on the invite? Part of a theme?

Yes to both. It’s always great to let your guest know who will be performing. It allows the parent and child to go online, check them out on YouTube, get excited about who they will be seeing. I have seen so many fabulous themed parties, from a Far East theme where all the kids were given kimonos to Princess Parties.

10. Why do children love your music?

We have been writing and singing kids’ music for 11 years. When we started writing, the process was so natural: Just put yourself into the mind of a child; the innocence of so many first things , silly things, scary things. We have just released our 3rd album and our music has grown over the years. We are growing with the kids. This new album is a pop rock album and is in the new genre of kindie music. Indie music for kids. We feel that parent and child should really rock out together!

[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E3U0BHzK2Wo&w=420&h=315]

sonshine and broccoliSonshine & Broccoli, AKA Lisa Sonshine and Brock (Broccoli) Burford, have been entertaining parents and their children for over a decade. They’ve just released their third album “It’s A Beautiful Day.” 

Music, always close to the heart and ongoing for Lisa and Brock, is the subject of a documentary, “Learning To Play” currently in post-production.  Developed by the multi-talented duo, “Learning to Play” emerged from seven day collaboration with other musical artists.  A Juno nominated artist, a film/ TV composer, vocal coach, Sonshine & Broccoli song writing students and others, came together in an all ages storytelling look on the power of music in our lives.  The interviews and music from this moving collaboration can be seen on Sonshine & Broccoli’s website. The documentary explores how an early learned love of music can connect people to each other throughout their lives.

Over the past decade, Sonshine & Broccoli have entertained children across the GTA with their high energy interactive shows, sold out performances, In demand Corporate & private events, as well as a Pop Stars songwriting workshop for kids aged 7 to 12 as an after school, PD Day, and camp program. The camp has been recently added to the Toronto Public Library’s Culture Days programming.

Sonshine & Broccoli brings out the song in all of us.

twitter @s_bmusic

 

Tags: birthday, birthday party, entertainment, featuredxx, Fun, kid birthday party, kid-approved, music, parents, toddler .

Hair tips and products for the busy mom with leading stylist Erica Wearing

Posted on January 6, 2016 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in The Best You .

erica with the littlePerfect hair or ponytail? Hair is so hard to manage – especially on busy mornings when you’re falling behind with lunches, sleepy stragglers and tell-tale roots. We caught up with leading hair stylist, Erica H. Wearing to ask for some amazing tips and products that will help out a busy mom. This pro, a mother too, came through with the perfect advice that will let you bypass the ponytail elastics with confidence!

What do you suggest for the ‘must-have’ hair care products for moms, and why?

My top go-to picks for hair products are:

hydratingstylingcream_320x304Moroccanoil – a leave in treatment perfect to apply on wet or dry hair leaving the hair silky and shiny

Moroccanoil Hydrating Styling Cream – it hydrates and tames frizzy hair perfect for wash and go hair or blowouts

FRESH.HAIR_Kevin Murphy Fresh Hair Dry Shampoo – this product is perfect for the days you don’t want to wash your hair and are in need of body and texture while also dry cleaning the hair and getting rid of oil and odour

2. How often should we be washing our hair?

I suggest washing your hair every two to three days, as shampooing daily causes hair to dry out and encourages your hair to create more oil. My favourite hair day is day two – by day three I throw it up in a top knot.

Top knot

Top knot

3. Besides a ponytail, what other quick hair styles or tips can you recommend for busy moms?

A top knot, messy bun or half up top knot both look stylish and easy to do. Also braiding the hair is always a quick but pretty way to have the hair pulled softly away from your face.

 

 

 

 

erica with clientErica H. Wearing has been a stylist for over 16 years and she absolutely loves what she does . “It’s a great feeling to help people feel and look their best when they leave my chair. I wouldn’t trade this for any other job in the world!”
Check out Erica at Ka!Boom Hair Salon 1129 West Pender Street, Vancouver B.C .
(604)681-6003

 

alissia marciano hairbyericaw

Tags: beauty, erica wearing, featuredxx, hair, Hair Care, makeover, manage, products, shampooing, Style, tools, top knot, washing .

Chef Mike Ward dishes about food and parenting

Posted on January 5, 2016 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in Fame & Fam, Urban Suburban Daddy .
chef mike ward

We had the pleasure of sitting down with Chef and Kin Community host Mike Ward about cooking and parenting.  Mike is a daddy to 2 beautiful girls. We asked the 10 questions that you know you want to ask a chef about cooking for the kids. Find out about developing their palates without driving yourself crazy, and check out his awesome video below – who doesn’t love mash potatoes!

1. What’s more difficult being a chef or a parent?

Can I choose both? I think whether you’re a professionally trained cook or not, making meals for kids is really one of the hardest things about parenting. Being a chef you certainly get to choose the level with which you challenge yourself, that’s an option you don’t have as a parent.

So, the serious answer would have to be parenting.

chef mike ward

 

2. What type of chef would you describe yourself as? What type of cooking do you prefer?

I would certainly describe myself as having a sense of humour towards cooking and food. We’re making food here, if I screw something up nobody gets killed. I think you can tell when a chef is taking them self too seriously in the food they make. I want to eat food that makes me smile, not serious dishes that are designed to technically impress and leave me in awe of those that prepared them.

3. At what age do you think you can start teaching the kiddos how to cook?

I think you can teach kids about flavour combinations from the moment they can communicate. They may not have the ability to handle sharp knives or hot pans, but most of cooking is understanding and exploring flavour combinations. It doesn’t require technical prowess to make a great sandwich or salad, but there’s still much learning that can be had with such simple dishes.

4. Why do you love cooking with your children?

Most of all, they’ll typically try what they make so that’s always a good thing! It’s also enjoying the sense of achievement and enthusiasm they have when they create something. Obviously, it’s not just applicable to cooking, but cooking is something that I enjoy so it’s lovely to be able to share that with them.

5. What are your thoughts on parents who spend time packing lunches that are bento-style – cutting sandwiches with cooking cutters to get rid of the crusts for example?

I have nothing but admiration because I don’t have the patience for that.

6. How do you convert kids who are picky eaters?

I don’t believe in so much converting kids, more approaching it as a process of expansion and learning. I know hundreds of adults that will openly express their dislike for foods they’ve never tasted. When my kids were very young, they both had a terrible fear of bugs, any small bug. What I would do is create little stories around these bugs, give them a name, tell them about their family, their kids. All of a suddenly they didn’t see them as bugs, they were lovely interesting little characters. Charlotte’s Web had millions of kids falling in love with spiders – I try to do the same with food. I’ll talk about how it’s grown, its flavour, its texture. If I can remove their established expectations then at least they might try it.

7. What is your favourite dish to make for your kids?

I don’t really have a favourite. The moment I can get them to like a particular flavour or texture I’ll immediately shift it slightly try to expand their palate even more. Right now we’re having fun with salty things, I’ve got them enjoying all olives and capers. I ultimately want them to think of food as one of life’s greatest joys. It’s not about consumption for energy, it’s about exploring and celebrating.

8. What are staples/must-have ingredients that every family should have in their home?

I am often asked that question and I’ve come to the conclusion that my list changes. Obviously things like onions, garlic and spices are often used. Right now sweet potato is often on my list: perfect roasted, great for soups, even used the next day in salads. I’m also a fan of flavourful greens, arugula, watercress. And eggs.

9. How do you help children develop a diverse palate?

The truth is that some kids are just immensely fussy and there’s nothing parents can do to change it. I do believe that kids can expand their palates with exposure to different flavours and textures but they’re also ultimately little human beings with their own likes and dislikes. I do believe in giving them a range with which to choose what they want to eat, we have that as adults, they should be allowed to have that as kids.

10. What advice can you give to moms or dads who are intimated by the kitchen and rely mostly on take-out food or uber-simple dishes?

Cooking is like anything else, if you start out of the gate with lofty expectations you will fail and be disheartened. Not unlike kids, if you try cooking simple dishes within your reach, that will give you confidence to push your boundaries slightly. Before you know it I guarantee what was once a chore can become a loved pastime. Also I love encouraging people to cook for others. Even after all these years nothing brings me more joy than feeding friends and family a satisfying meal.

mike ward instagramChef Mike Ward began his cooking career at the bright-eyed age of 17 in Sydney, Australia. Mike never believed he would one-day prepare meals for such clientele as Julia Roberts, Tom Cruise, Bruce Willis, and Nicole Kidman. He has cooked in some of Sydney’s and Toronto’s most acclaimed restaurants: Zigolini’s and The Basement in Australia; Prego Della Piazza and Shark City in Toronto, and has owned and operated several catering companies. Throughout his career Mike has also shared his passion and experience through group and private cooking lessons allowing keen home cooks to develop their skills.

In 2000 Mike produced and directed an award-winning cooking/travel/lifestyle television series that have been viewed in over 40 countries. His great love of creating food content has taken him all over the world, writing, photographing and curating recipes and food related stories for highly respected print, online and television outlets. He serves as a consult to Centennial Colleges’ culinary department, and is also involved in many charities including Dancing with Parkinson’s.

twitter@MikeWardTO

instagram

@mikedaniel21

Tags: Chef Mike Ward, Cooking, featuredxx, food, nom, parenting, recipe .

The shrimp and sausage skillet – a 20 minute dish

Posted on January 3, 2016 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in Delicious Dishes .

skillet - amanda gThe hottest (no pun intended) craze to hit the dinner table lately has been the skillet. It’s a one-pan flavour-infused meal that’s starting to show up on ever restaurant’s menu – and it’s so easy that you’ll fill your meal repertoire effortlessly.

Cure your best cast-iron and start chopping because Amanda, a mother of 5  and (and newly grandmother of 1 – congratulations!!!) from Texas, makes a mean Shrimp & Sausage Skillet. She shared this fast and easy recipe with Urban Suburban Mommy. And while she laughs off the idea of eating Paleo, she did take inspiration from a Paleo recipe she found recently on Pinterest. This dish looked so good we had to try – and share with you!

What you need: 

– 1.5-2 sausages, sliced and pre-cooked
– 1 lb of shrimp (25 medium or 20 large)
– 2 cloves of garlic
– 3/4 cup green bell pepper,sliced
– 3/4 cup red bell pepper, sliced
– 1/2 yellow onion, medium, sliced
– 1 zucchini, sliced
– 1/4 cup chicken stock
– 2 tsp Old bay seasoning
– 1pinch red pepper flakes
– salt and pepper, to taste
– 3-4 tablespoons olive oil or coconut oil

What you do:

Over medium-high, heat skillet with oil. Meanwhile, season shrimp with Old Bay Seasoning. Cook shrimp about 3 to 5 minutes, tossing around to cook all sides, until they turn opaque. Remove these from heat and set aside.

Cook onions and bell peppers in skillet with 2 tbsps of olive oil or coconut oil for about 2 minutes
Add sausage and zucchini to the skillet, and continue to cook for another 2 minutes, just until veggies start to break down. Add the shrimp back into the skillet,  along with the garlic, and cook everything for about 1 minute.

Pour chicken stock into pan and mix through to moisten everything. Add salt, ground pepper, and red pepper flakes to taste. Remove from heat, garnish with parsley and serve hot.

You can add this to a side of rice – like our fool-proof rice if you like. This skillet is full of flavour, with great protein and veggies. If you want to create a more exotic flavour you can opt to change up the spicing.

Consider:
Ginger and lemongrass for a taste of Thai
Coconut milk, turmeric and curry for an Indian craving
A burst of cumin, cilantro and chili powder for an untraditional Tex-Mex sizzle

You can use chicken, beef, pork, calamari, shelled crab or even tofu for your protein. Don’t be afraid to give your meats and seafoods a good sear before blending in the vegetables and broth. The cooking time is quick but you always want to make sure they’re thoroughly cooked before eating.

You can really play with the flavours of this and swap in whatever veggies you’ve got hanging around in your produce drawer. Eggplant, sweet potato, kale, turnip, just adjust your cooking time accordingly.

Enjoy, and let us know of any interesting skillets you’ve created! We’re all about this fast, easy and tasty dish!

Tags: easy, fast, featuredxx, fool-proof rice, nom, protein, sausage, sear, shrimp, skillet .

10 questions with a surrogate mother

Posted on December 27, 2015 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in 10 Questions With .

8 Months

photo: Marabuchi

They want a baby but need someone to do the gestating. A surrogate is able to do that. But it’s a strange scenario, lending out your womb, perhaps donating your eggs, too. We caught up with mother of two and two-time surrogate, Samantha, from York, Pennsylvania, to ask the questions you know you want to know about being a surrogate.

1. What were your reasons for becoming a surrogate?

I had wanted to be a surrogate since nursing school (2001), however I wanted to be sure my family was complete before I looked into doing it. The absolute joy my children give is something I have been honored to give to someone else.

2. How many surro-babies have you had?

I’ve completed a surrogacy with 1 child and I’m currently pregnant with my second surrogacy – possibly twins! It’s still early on, but well on the way.

3. How can you go about finding a family to hire you?

Some surrogates go “indy” – independent – where they have found a couple outside of an agency. I was indy my first time and used an agency this time.

4. Do you have to go through a lot of screening?

Yes, LOTS!  You must have a recent full check up, screened for STDS and have a psych evaluation completed before beginning the process.

feature newborn

photo: Joshua Rappeneker

5. What is the financial compensation – is it just money or are there other benefits? Are you paid for each implantation or only for a viable pregnancy? 

Most intended parents do send other gifts like gift baskets, some will have their surrogate go for massages, mani/pedis. There is a payment for the embryo transfer which can vary and is agreed upon during the contract phase. The next payment is after a positive blood pregnancy test and monthly payments start after that.

6. Do you donate your eggs or just rent out your uterus? Is the compensation a lot higher if they use your eggs? Can they ask you to carry multiples or is it a singleton every time (and does the rate go up if twins happen?)

I personally cannot use my eggs due to genetic reasons, but I can carry.

There are 2 types of surrogates. Traditional Surrogates (TS) and Gestational Surrogates (GS) or Gestational Carriers (GC). TS is where they use the surrogate’s egg and GS or GC are carriers with no genetic relation to the baby.

During the matching phase they will include in your profile whether you are willing to carry twins or only a singleton. The intended parents can choose you if they are looking for someone to carry twins. That rate is normally only a couple thousand more – it’s not double, like a lot of people assume it is.

According to Circle Surrogacy, the rate a surrogate GS can expect is around $25,000 to $30,000 base fee plus up to $25,000 in additional compensation. It depends on state, whether the surrogate is a first-timer, as experienced surrogates are paid more. Surrogacy America places the fees slightly higher, at $40,000 to $50,000 plus expenses, though Samantha explains that this fee may only be for somewhere like California, where rates are at a premium.

There are other variables besides multiples that affect the cost – C-section, egg donation, lost wages, travel expenses, clothing allowance, life insurance and other elements can be part of the payment and included in the expenses paid by the intended parents. These are defined in the contract between surrogate and intended parents.

In Canada, surrogacy is priced out differently and the breakdown gives a range of $18,000 to $45,000+ through Surrogacy in Canada.

pregnancy test surrogate mother

photo: Tips Times Admin

7. Are there a lot of limitations on your lifestyle when you surro? Sex? Activities? Foods? Can they ask you to do yoga or take pre-natals or do you have to take other meds? 

Some intended parents want things very strict, it is stipulated in the contract. My first time, the parents asked that I limit fast food – not a big deal for me. If you are in a relationship there are timeframes where you are not allowed to have sex because of the risk of you getting pregnant. Otherwise it’s ok, unless your OBGYN has reasons to medically limit sex.  Pre-natals are a must do, and there are a good bit of other meds. They take over your cycle by meds. There are injections and other meds that start before the transfer then continue until around 10 weeks of the pregnancy. These are to help ensure that the body is ready and that the pregnancy takes hold after the transfer.

8. Does the surro-family want to be involved with your pregnancy throughout for the experience? Be there for the delivery? Is the baby with you for any length of time after delivery? Breast feeding?

Some are more involved then others – distance can be a big factor so it means lots of phone interaction. Most parents will come into the area towards the end of the pregnancy. My intended parents were in the room for delivery and the intended parents are planning on it for this time.  Typically, once born, the baby is with the parents, but they do allow the surrogate – and sometimes family – in to hold and visit.  Breastfeeding is very uncommon because of the bonding and possible problems that can happen.  Some surros will pump for the baby.

9. How do your other kids handle the situation of mommy carrying a baby but them not getting a brother or sister out of it?

I explained to my kids in as simple terms as I could what was going on, and that it was not my baby.  This time they understand a little more being 9 and 7.

feature belly

photo: S ‘Lucy Sky’ Diamond-Jones

10. Do you want to have any connection with the baby/family after? Or is it like a closed adoption? Is it hard to give up or can you stay unattached because you know you’re doing the pregnancy, not having your own child?

This depends on distance as well. I asked for my family to be closer this time for that reason – and that, because my labor could go quickly, so in case I deliver early, they would hopefully make it in time. I get to see pictures of my first surro-baby, but they are 8 hours away, so it makes it hard to just stop by. There is some detachment knowing its not my child, but I do happily go back to sleeping all night after delivery 🙂

Tags: baby, featuredxx, gestational surrogate, intended parents, newborn, pregnancy, surrogate, traditional surrogate, twins .

Our 2016 anti-resolutions

Posted on December 26, 2015 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in Urban Suburban Mommy .

photo: Bryan Kemp

photo: Bryan Kemp

We’ve agreed, we don’t do new year’s resolutions because about 5 minutes later they’ve been broken. Resolutions are a recipe for failure, a way to start the year by putting unrealistic pressure on yourself, and let’s face it, after having the kids home for two weeks, having spent much more than usual on gifts, entertaining and parties – plus outfits for all those occasions – now isn’t the time to come down on yourself for not weighing in at the perfect number, not being the perfect parent, not being… Perfect, period.

Suburban Mommy Michelle says:

photo: Andrew Choy

photo: Andrew Choy

I prefer to set goals for the new year. I say them out loud so they are real and tangible. I usually ask my friends and husband to do the same. 99% of the time I achieve these goals – which is pretty exciting. It’s about setting your eye on the prize, developing your mantra for the year – “Setting your intention” as my yoga teacher would say.

It works.

Here are my personal New Year’s Goals:

Photo: Tomasz Stasiuk

photo: Tomasz Stasiuk

1. Be less wasteful: I really want to focus on buying less so I don’t have to throw out things like spoiled produce from the fridge.

2. Get in shape:  I am not going to say I want to be a size 2, because that isn’t realistic, but it is important for me to get back in shape because I want to feel fit and healthy. Both my boys are solid and I need the physical strength for them. I would like my pre-baby body back – for me!

3. Save: It’s time to put more money in the bank (on a regular and frequent basis). There are so many things to save for – RRSP’s, RESP’s, Rainy Day Fund, Travel Fund….(that’s a whole other blog post)

Urban Mommy Elisa says:

Photo: Amy

photo: Amy

Goals are aspirational. The success is in working towards them, not reaching them. Looking at what you can work on is healthy, and there’s no reason you can’t take time to change for the better. Mine are:

1. Creating more time for family: I’ve got a hectic schedule. I’ve never been good at time management, but I’m seeing the downside to that – so it’s time to take the wheel on that one and make it work better.

2. Screen-free time: I’m a self-confessed digital junkie. After trying to put my phone away and leave it away over Christmas, I’ve realized just how many times a day – while NOT working – I look at a phone, tablet or computer. I need to create more screen-free time during the evenings and weekends.

Photo: Angie Chapman

photo: Angie Chapman

3. Let go: My friends knew me as a laid-back and easy going person. Motherhood has all but snuffed most of my laissez faire. I live like there’s a catastrophe waiting to happen on my watch, and it’s got to stop. Or at least I’ve got to work on it, which is more realistic.

Baby steps.

We have written them down and shared them (I was going to just ditto Michelle’s 3, but decided to take the first step and say mine out loud!) – now what are your goals – we would love to hear!

photo: Silus Grok

photo: Silus Grok

Photo: Jenny Huey

photo: Jenny Huey

Tags: change, Don't Panic, family, featuredxx, fortune cookie, get in shape, resolutions, saving, screen-free, self .

Star Wars: The force awakens – mama approved for older kids

Posted on December 22, 2015 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in Mommy Approved .

episode VII star wars the force awakens posterI don’t exactly know how many discussions I’ve had about Star Wars: The Force Awakens, but it’s a lot. Like, A LOT. “Have you seen it?” “Didi you take the kids?” “Did you love it?” And I can honestly say, J.J. Abrams, you blew my mind.

My husband is a huge Star Wars superfan. His tattoo doesn’t lie. So when the release date for presales came, he harassed me into tickets for the first opportunity we could see it. Of course, that meant prime-time, 1.45 pm at the best screen in the city. It was a 3D, DBOX, UltraAVX, ATMOS experience. (I’m not sure what all of those mean, but the seats jostled us, the sound was incredible and the Millennium Falcon seemed to warp right at us!)

The movie is a bit violent for the littles. There are some scenes that could be  a little bit terrifying for the sensitive kid. I’m really not entirely sure that it was appropriate for my 5 and 7 year old boys to go see it, but it was never open for discussion. The superfan had them watch the first 6 Star Wars movies – sequentially – for the day that rivalled Christmas in its excitement and intensity in our house: The release of episode VII, Star Wars: The Force Awakens. The Kylo Ren and First Order Troopers (Storm Troopers) 3-D glasses were the best.

First Order Trooper 3-D glasses

First Order Trooper 3D glasses

Kylo Ren 3-D glasses

Kylo Ren 3D glasses

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

On Star Wars Day (or December 19th, as you might know it) my husband had to work. He knew a few days before, and it was like someone had smashed the Christmas tree and his eggnog had curdled. Theatres were sold out. There were no great options left. But he insisted I take the boys. They needed to see it! One of our friends came with – it was a special day for him, he recalled in ’77 how his dad had taken him to see the original Star Wars. I realized then and there, it wasn’t just a movie, this was a memory, a rite of passage, an important moment for my boys.

And this is something only us 40-something parents will understand. We were the youngest group to be around to experience the original release in ’77. There may be younger superfans, but if you were born after the mid 70s, you won’t remember it on the big screen in 1977 or Empire in 1980 or Return of the Jedi in 1983.

As a happy ending to my superfan/husband’s plight, what can only be known as a true Christmas/Star Wars miracle, I won tickets from a local radio station for a VIP viewing the evening of the 19th  – a time he was able to go. And he noted that he knew The Force would take care of him. (Huge shout-out to Fred & Mel at 102.1 The Edge, you saved Christmas/Star Wars Day!)

***edited: just had to share the salaries of the actors in this movie HERE.

Tags: 102.1 The Edge, 3D, Empire, Episode VII, featuredxx, Jedi, Movie, Star Wars, Superfan, The Force Awakens .

Live clean wash

Posted on December 18, 2015 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in Mommy Approved .
mom tested

I can’t even tell you how happy I am that I came across the “Live Clean” brand when I was perusing the baby aisle one day in my local pharmacy.  I absolutely love the brand  and the product is certainly true to it’s name. Want to know why?

mom tested

Here is the product overview:

A clinically tested, tearless formula that gently cleanses without drying. Leaving babies skin and hair feeling soft and nourished. Featuring a coconut based surfactant, Live Clean Baby is formulated free of harsh chemicals and preservatives. Made with purified water and enriched with certified organic botanicals of Chamomile, Lavender and Aloe, this unique formula rinses clean with a gentle scent to sooth baby. These baby products will make washing up a splash of fun!

Features:

  • 98% Plant ingredients
  • SLS free
  • Tear free
  • Hypoallergenic
  • Pediatrician tested

The shampoo & wash smells absolutely amazing and what’s great about it is that I can use it on both my baby and 3 year old.  In fact, my 3 year old has dry skin and a dry, peeling scalp.  Ever since I started using Live Clean Shampoo and wash on my toddler, my son is no longer suffering from dryness.  I was so impressed with the brand that I wanted to do some additional research about the company and its other offerings.  What I learned is that the product is Canadian – so thumbs up again.  I also like supporting homegrown products.  I also discovered that the Live Clean brand has a series of products including skincare and products for adults.

I have extremely dry hair, perhaps because it is colour treated.  I have had a hard time finding a moisturizing shampoo so I decided to try the Live Clear Keratin Oil Shampoo.  Again, I love the scent and so far my hair is pretty soft with washings which is a bit of a miracle.  I definitely will be exploring the rest of the product line and will share any other additional insights.  Live Clean is available at Walmart and other retailers.

Tags: bath, featuredxx, Product review, wash .

Perfecting your holiday outfit – tips from celeb stylist Alissia Marciano

Posted on December 17, 2015 by venicealissia Posted in The Best You .

Something in the way you move, it’s that ‘je ne sais quoi’. It’s the way you look, how you feel and what you exude.

You’re effortlessly chic.
breakfast at tiffanys - cocktail party
This is what we all want for the holiday season. Luckily for us Santa has come early. Here are some of my favorite tips and style choices when dressing for the season:
It may seems like you’re running around in circles when it comes to choosing that perfect cocktail dress. Of course you can play it safe and wear the LBD (little black dress), which still remains one of my staple pieces, but this season, go outside your comfort zone and try a little something different.
Why not experiment?
I am not talking about taking haute couture straight off the runway. I don’t expect you to wear it to your partner’s christmas party or next door neighbors shin dig, but let’s push the envelop a bit. I think it’s important to stand out at a cocktail party – of course for all the right reasons.
Here are a few tips to make shopping that much more enjoyable during this cocktail season. And yes, there are some LBD options for those of us that just can’t stray away from the dark side:)
Keep in mind fit, style and fabric.
Good tailoring/fit is essential when it comes to a cocktail dress. If the dress hugs the body then impeccable tailoring is a must. If it has a slight drape, then it must caress the body in all the right places. It’s key to know your correct dress size. If you find that you’re between sizes – or your baby body is still bouncing back, a tailor will be your best friend. A good tailor will nip and tuck the dress in all the right places.
The right silhouette is crucial in order to play up your best assets. Choose one, two or three of your favorite assets and play them up!! For me, it’s all about the the legs, so a shorter hemline always makes me feel sexier!
The festive season is all about sparkle, shine and color, so make sure to indulge in some of this season’s eye catching fabrics. Below I have chosen looks with different silhouettes, fabrics, embellishments, colors and hemlines – all while keeping in mind Fall/Winter 2015 trends. There should be something for every momma out there. Here are some of my favourites to make heads turn for all the right reasons this season!
erdem red lace dress

A lace cocktail dress with a slight Victorian feel – Erdem red lace dress

Sparkle – choose the right silhouette when it comes to secquined embellished dresses.

A little sparkle – Rodart Dress

A little sparkle – Rodart Dress

A bit of sparkle and colour - Mikhale Kale

A bit of sparkle and colour – Mikhale Kale

LBD with sparkle - Valentino

LBD with sparkle – Valentino

LBD with a twist - Giambattista Valli

LBD with a twist – Giambattista Valli

Consider a Slip dress – something lingerie inspired

Slip dress-lingerie inspired Rodarte

Slip dress-lingerie inspired – Rodarte

LBD Slip dress - Boss

LBD Slip dress – Boss

Try a softer pastel colour with red lips to make your grand entrance

Pastel dress with red lips - Chanel

Pastel dress with red lips – Chanel

Giambattista Valli

Giambattista Valli – a little bit of leg

Another must read: 

If you loved this article, you’ll love: Perfectly accessorized for holiday festivities – tips from celeb stylist Alissia Marciano

AlissiaAlissia Marciano is an international fashion and wardrobe stylist, as well as, an on-air celebrity fashion host. Currently based in Los Angeles, she has worked and forged her talent around the world in such cities as Paris, New York, Vancouver, and Toronto. From guest appearances on Rachael Ray, to the countdown to the Oscars on the red carpet with E!, and co-hosting Look A Like and Sexy Girl,  Alissia is a prominent figure in the fashion industry and her success has earned her the reputation of a highly sought after international fashion and celebrity stylist. Beyond fashion and music, Alissia’s portfolio includes an extensive list of advertising clients including Diesel, ESPN, Nike, Acura, Orbit, and CAT. Her eclectic mix of femininity and rock n’ roll has graced the pages of such publications as L’Uomo Vogue, Neo 2 (Spain), Entertainment Weekly, New York Moves, Wonderland (Japan), The National (UAE) and Filler to name a few. In addition to her work in the industry, Alissia has two beautiful boys with whom she shares many wonderful adventures and creates lasting memories with, surfing and skateboarding being two of their favorite activities.

alissia marciano@alissiamarciano

 

Tags: designer, dress, featuredxx, tips .

Perfectly accessorized for holiday festivities – tips from celeb stylist Alissia Marciano

Posted on December 17, 2015 by venicealissia Posted in The Best You .

Upping your style factor this cocktail party season can be as simple as adding the perfect finishing touches. Shoes, accessories, your signature sent and a bit of sparkle can take your outfit from playroom to va-va-voom!

I’ve always liked to show leg, and the cocktail dress lends well to that. Bearing in mind that it does get quite cold at night, it doesn’t mean that you have to drop hemlines. Sheer black or opaque tights are your go to when it comes to winter cocktail dressing. Wolford has many great options to choose from. Here are a few of my favorites.

Wolfords cashmere silk tights

Wolfords cashmere silk tights

Cara Tights with a sparkle

Cara Tights with a sparkle

a little cheeky with these stay up tights

A little cheeky with these stay up tights

Go luxe with Wolfords cashmere silk tights or glitz it up with Cara Tights, with a sparkle around the ankle and calf – or go a little ‘cheeky’ with these stay up tights

This isn’t the season to play it safe when it comes to heels. The higher the better when we want to ooze sex appeal. I can already hear the sighs. I have close stylish momma friends who simply refuse to wear heels due to the pain factor. The cocktail party, in my opinion, is the ONE exception. Trust me ladies, sometimes a little a pain goes a long way, especially here. To all the stylish mothers out there I challenge you to slip on a pair of high heels for at least one soiree (pack up the back-up flats ‘just in case’ if you must)

Check out these style that would make even SJP drool.

Christian Louboutin Glitter pump

Christian Louboutin Glitter pump

Aquazzura Pon Pon sandal

Aquazzura Pon Pon sandal

Saint Laurent Metallic ‘fetish’ ankle boot

Saint Laurent Metallic ‘fetish’ ankle boot

Christian Louboutin Black follies lace pump

Christian Louboutin Black follies lace pump

‘Tis the season to glam it up. Three words Sparkle, Sparkle, Sparkle. I gravitate towards large sparkly button earrings and long rhinestone shoulder dusters. If the dress is simple a large neckpiece is the go to accessory or an over the top jeweled cuff.
Alexis Bittar has some eye catching jewels for this holiday season. I also like to go vintage when it comes to my glitzy jewels and Carole Tanenbaum is one of my favorites!

Carole Tanenbaum tall bracelet

Carole Tanenbaum neck cuff

Cascading Fringe Hinge Collar Necklace

Carole Tanenbaum long shoulder dusters

Jagged Marquis Cluster Post Tassel Earring

Molten Spike Split Lobe Clip

Carole Tanenbaum amethyst chandeliers

Alan Anderson Purple Earrings

Carole Tanenbaum drop deco

Diamante & Blue Earrings

Carole Tanenbaum red and green

KJL Snake Earrings

The last touch is a splash of your favorite perfume. For evenings out i like to dab on the classic Coco Chanel or Comme des Garcon Carnation. I think it’s important for a woman to have her own scent.

What’s yours?

Another must read: 

If you loved this article, you’ll love: Perfecting your holiday outfit – tips from celeb stylist Alissia Marciano

AlissiaAlissia Marciano is an international fashion and wardrobe stylist, as well as, an on-air celebrity fashion host. Currently based in Los Angeles, she has worked and forged her talent around the world in such cities as Paris, New York, Vancouver, and Toronto. From guest appearances on Rachael Ray, to the countdown to the Oscars on the red carpet with E!, and co-hosting Look A Like and Sexy Girl,  Alissia is a prominent figure in the fashion industry and her success has earned her the reputation of a highly sought after international fashion and celebrity stylist. Beyond fashion and music, Alissia’s portfolio includes an extensive list of advertising clients including Diesel, ESPN, Nike, Acura, Orbit, and CAT. Her eclectic mix of femininity and rock n’ roll has graced the pages of such publications as L’Uomo Vogue, Neo 2 (Spain), Entertainment Weekly, New York Moves, Wonderland (Japan), The National (UAE) and Filler to name a few. In addition to her work in the industry, Alissia has two beautiful boys with whom she shares many wonderful adventures and creates lasting memories with, surfing and skateboarding being two of their favorite activities.

alissia marciano@alissiamarciano

 

Tags: accessories, featuredxx, jewelry, legs, perfume, sexy, stockings .

Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel won’t vaccinate their baby?!?!?!?!

Posted on December 16, 2015 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in Fame & Fam .

“SOURCE CLAIMS JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE AND
JESSICA BIEL WILL NOT VACCINATE THEIR SON”

That’s been the big headline for miles and miles – on In Touch Weekly and other media outlets – and you’ve probably seen the debate rage all over the internet.Screen Shot 2015-12-16 at 12.29.37 AM

The only thing I will say about whether or not baby Silas should be vaccinated is that I don’t understand why the internet believes they have the right to weigh in.

 The info comes leaked from a “friend.” The friend claims Jessica won’t have their son vaccinated because she thinks it may cause complications, and that JT supports her decision. The statement claims this friend hopes they change their minds.

It’s hard enough being a mother. We second-guess ourselves and our every decision. The more we care, the more we lose sleep over every choice we make – from vaccinations to car seats to preschools. I can’t imagine how hard it would be to be a mother in the spotlight – who has the entire internet weighing in on her decisions. I mean, we all hate when we’re judged. Think about the last time the Mother-in-law tried to comment on your parenting!

We all try to do our best.

We all make the decisions for our children with their best interests in mind. None of us has all the right answers. None of us can even be 100 per cent sure our decisions are right – only that they’re right for us.

 Screen Shot 2015-12-16 at 12.27.46 AMSo why is the internet telling Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel how to raise their baby?

 I definitely have my feelings on the vaccination debate. Very strong feelings. But I’ll spare you having to hear them because I’m not a doctor and I have no business telling you what to do or push my educated beliefs on you – because for all my investigation and sleepless nights, my decision is right for my family, and that’s all I have to worry about!

Tags: baby silas, featuredxx, jessica biel, justin timberlake, rumour in touch weekly, vaccinate .
« Previous Page
Next Page »

Stay Social: Urban Suburban Mommy

Instagram

Facebook

Urban Suburban Mommy

Featured on:

Take a look

  • 10 Questions With
  • Bon Voyage
  • Delicious Dishes
  • DIY
  • Domestic Goodness
  • Fame & Fam
  • FML Mommy
  • Inspiration
  • Mommy Approved
  • Sponsored Post
  • The Best You
  • The Struggle is Real
  • Urban Suburban Daddy
  • Urban Suburban Mommy

Nav

  • The Struggle is Real
  • Domestic Goodness
    • DIY
    • Delicious Dishes
  • Urban Suburban Mommy
    • The Best You
    • Urban Suburban Daddy
    • Mommy Approved
      • Sponsored Post
  • Bon Voyage
  • Fame & Fam
  • 10 Questions
  • FML Mommy
  • About
    • Contributors
    • Contact us
    • Home
    • Write for us
    • Work With Us
  • Elisa Krovblit Keay

40 is the new baby

You're 40-ish and have a young family. We get you - we're there too.

Pages

  • About
    • Contributors
      • Alexis Nicols
      • Alissia Marciano
      • Clara Power
      • Danielle Reid
      • Erica Wearing
      • Kasia Waloszczyk
      • Kate Nash
      • Krista Holmes
      • Lauren Millman
      • Sara Duck
    • Elisa Keay
    • Work With Us
    • Write for us
  • About us
  • Cart
  • Checkout
  • Coming soon
  • Contact us
  • Elisa Krovblit Keay
  • Fullwidth page
  • My Account
  • Shop

Archives

  • May 2023
  • July 2022
  • November 2020
  • November 2019
  • July 2019
  • October 2018
  • August 2018
  • July 2018
  • January 2018
  • December 2017
  • November 2017
  • October 2017
  • September 2017
  • August 2017
  • July 2017
  • June 2017
  • May 2017
  • April 2017
  • March 2017
  • February 2017
  • January 2017
  • December 2016
  • November 2016
  • October 2016
  • September 2016
  • August 2016
  • July 2016
  • June 2016
  • May 2016
  • April 2016
  • March 2016
  • February 2016
  • January 2016
  • December 2015
  • November 2015
  • October 2015
  • September 2015

Categories

  • 10 Questions With (27)
  • Bon Voyage (20)
  • Domestic Goodness (89)
    • Delicious Dishes (77)
    • DIY (9)
  • Fame & Fam (14)
  • FML Mommy (7)
  • Inspiration (1)
  • Mommy Approved (48)
    • Sponsored Post (5)
  • The Best You (44)
  • The Struggle is Real (94)
  • Urban Suburban Mommy (56)
    • Urban Suburban Daddy (7)

WordPress

  • Register
  • Log in
  • WordPress

CyberChimps WordPress Themes

© Urban Suburban MOmmy
Never Miss A Post

Stay Connected