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10 Questions with a Lactation Consultant

Posted on September 21, 2016 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in 10 Questions With .

Breastfeeding can be hard. Some of us have tried it and had no problems at all, but going through parenting boards and Facebook groups and mommy blogs, it seems to be one part of motherhood that so many of us had no idea would be so challenging.

From problems with latching to concerns about over or under production to finding the right technique, it’s not as straight forward as we all once thought it would be. So we caught up with professional Lactation Consultant Rose Le Blanc (IBCLC, CPD) www.roseleblanc.com to ask the questions you know you want to know about breastfeeding.

1. Why is breastfeeding so hard?

We never see women breastfeeding any more. Long ago when we lived in close-knit communities, women and girls were surrounded by breastfeeding women most of their lives – consistently seeing the latching, positions and techniques involved. Our society is now so removed from breastfeeding women, that often times when women have their first baby and begin breastfeeding, they feel at a loss as to how to latch and manage a feed. The confidence is not there, and this is mostly because they are doing it/seeing it for the first time. I think this is one reason; other reasons include hospital births where c-sections, use of narcotics and hours of intravenous fluids are the new normal. Such situations set up babies for a slower start, with less access to the breast and more trouble latching. Babies are born swollen with these intravenous fluids and are weighed within minutes of birth only to lose most of the fluids in their diaper later on. These early weigh-ins are often the reason in the next 1 to 3 days for higher than normal percentages of weight loss, leading to unnecessary introduction of supplements in the hospital. I see this all the time!

2. Most people don’t hear about the difficulty until they’re actually about to have a baby or are starting to try to breastfeed, why is it such a well kept secret?

There is a lot of focus on the pregnancy and labour/delivery. I think it’s mostly because of the fear around labour and delivery, the unknown of when it’s going to happen and how it is going to feel. Many assume that their bodies are made for breastfeeding ,so there shouldn’t be any problems/questions – it should just happen.

I think this also goes back to our culture of not seeing breastfeeding on a regular basis. When we don’t see it, we don’t think about it.

3. What may hinder the ability to breastfeed?

Besides the issues that come about from my answers to question #1, about 50 per cent of my clients have babies with a tongue tie. Others babies have tight jaws likely due to birth which restricts their ability to open wide at the breast, causing nipple pain and sometimes decreasing milk supply leading to inefficient transfer of milk. Most of my clients have multiple reasons for their difficulties, and this is where my job becomes similar to an investigator – working to find all the pieces of the puzzle to solve the case. Once the case is solved, we figure out together what the most suitable plan is based on the client’s breastfeeding goals.

4. Does age – specifically ‘advanced maternal age’ have anything to do with how well I will be able to breastfeed? 

I don’t believe age is an issue. I’ve had clients of all ages and anecdotally, I can say there is no correlation between age and milk supply, for example. I also think it is dangerous when LC’s make such assumptions because, as I said earlier, there are usually multiple reasons for the breastfeeding problem. When we focus on age (something we can do nothing about), it takes away from the pieces that we can solve.

5. Is it true that a breast reduction or implants will affect your ability to breastfeed?

Sometimes they cause problems with supply and sometimes all goes fine. It really depends on whether major glands were damaged or not. Often times it is how the surgery is done – incisions furthest from the nipple and smallest are best. I don’t like to prejudge about the situation when first see a mom. What is most important is watching a breastfeed to see what the baby is doing at the breast – drinking well or not so well and why gives me the most information.

photo: Benjamin Magaña

photo: Benjamin Magaña

 

6. What helps bring up milk supply?

Babies are the best at maintaining good milk supply. Feeding on demand with both breasts at each feed – when your baby is showing hunger cues (hands to mouth, smacking lips, licking lips) is the best way to maintain good milk supply. It is normal to experience a number of growth spurts in the first year and with these growths spurts comes a baby that is feeding more frequently. Frequent feeds bring an increase in milk supply. If you feel like you don’t have enough, simply managing the feed differently can bring on more – compressing your breasts and offering multiple sides during feeds. If this doesn’t work, seeking help from a good LC is important.

7. What might hurt milk supply – is there any food, or over-the-counter medications to avoid?

Oral antihistamines, oral decongestants such as pseudoephedrine (sudafed) and hormonal birth control can cause a decrease in supply. In general, if you have a cold or allergies when breastfeeding try to use medications that can be taken as a nasal spray, eye drops or ointment. With birth control, it’s best to go with a non-hormonal option while breastfeeding, such as a barrier method or copper IUD. Otherwise, most medications are safe to take. A good place to check to be sure your medication is safe to take while breastfeeding or won’t affect milk supply is motherisk.org

8. Is there anything I can do to help save my breasts from the effects of breastfeeding?

Studies have shown that it is the breast changes that occur during pregnancy along with genetics that cause the shape/size of your breasts post-breastfeeding, not breastfeeding itself. However, there is hope as the pectoral muscles are what support and control the way your breasts hang. Working your pectoral muscles more with weights and natural movement when your body is ready can help bring your breasts back to their pre-baby state. Also, avoiding underwire and heavily padded bras can help avoid gravity’s pull on your breasts. Such bras take away the work and natural loads your pectoral muscles are meant to do and support leaving these muscles to atrophy. When muscles are no longer used, the tissues they support (the breasts in this case) lose the elasticity they once had.

9. Does breastfeeding really help lose the baby weight?

For most women breastfeeding does help them lose baby weight, but certainly not all. Studies show that our bodies burn approximately 20 calories per ounce of breast milk produced. So, if a baby eats 20-30 ounces a day, that’s anywhere between 400-600 calories burned. Much of it depends on your metabolism and how fit you were before pregnancy. This said, I always say to my clients to be gentle with your body and give it time to heal, especially in the first year after birth. Walking and carrying your baby are great exercises to do. Jumping back into a workout routine too early, particularly one that is high impact and/or core focused can damage your pelvic floor.

10. If I have problems breastfeeding one baby, does it mean I won’t be able to breastfeed my next?

With each pregnancy brings growth of more milk glands, and so typically more milk is produced after each consecutive pregnancy. The mature milk often comes in earlier within the first week with the second child as well – helping you get off to good start. It’s certainly worth giving it another try with that extra boost of milk. However, every baby is different – latch, use of tongue and sensitivity to changes in flow. You never know what you’re going to get! 🙂

rose-le-blanc-colourRose Le Blanc is a Lactation Consultant (IBCLC, CPD)
She can be reached for appointments and consulting at 416-454-5307, and offers a free, no obligation phone consultation. She has worked with the renowned lactation expert, Dr. Jack Newman and together they developed a clear and concise resource guide app for breastfeeding families and Lactation Consultants, Physicians, Nurses and Midwives who support breastfeeding families. Visit the site for more details. www.roseleblanc.com

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Battle of the baby boards

Posted on July 7, 2016 by Urban Suburban Mommy Posted in The Struggle is Real .

I don’t know how parents did it before the Internet, but baby boards and parenting groups online seem to be the way we all share information.

So why all the fighting????

I love cruising parenting boards. I think it’s my favourite distraction. I love offering info, tips, and sometimes learning something new. The personal experiences are so interesting.

By nature I’m just a research junkie, so parenting boards scratch that itch for me. Of course, I’ve read Dr. Sears and Dr. Newman and Dr. Seuss, so I’ve got my foundation of highly regarded advice, but I’ve also read far too much about the far too unusual so I’m a bit of a Cliff Claven when it comes to parenting advice.

But the thing I don’t get is all of the fighting.

The Fighting!

Why all the bashing and trolling and arguing?

I think part of the problem is that there is no font for sarcasm. If there were a sarcasm font I believe half of the world’s problems would be solved and parenting boards would be a much safer place.

I think people start to become friends, and then want to back their friends up. If only we realized that being right has nothing to do with liking someone.

I think people are misinformed and just generalize information, or worse yet, assume what the answer should be, instead of being able to admit when they just don’t know. Like not being informed is a sign of bad parenting.

I think people are too ego-driven to be right.

Why even ask the question on a parenting board? You’re sitting at a computer. You’re typing a question. If you type the question into Bing, Google, Yahoo or any other search you’ll get some pretty verified answers.

Why crowdsource?

Crowdsourcing information is the best way to connect. It’s not about nailing the most perfect answer, it’s finding something to chat about with other mommies. A way to start a conversation. It’s a way to commiserate about a subject or dig and dig until you find an answer among the pile that suits you.

Motherhood can be very isolating.

You spend 24/7 with the babes. Of course, if you work out of the home then you spend 8/5 at work and the rest with the babes. With little time to chat with friends – and that time is spent chatting about your babies anyways when it does happen – baby boards allow you to connect with like-minded people and have a communal experience without having to be in the same room, the same city or even the same country.

I get the difference of opinions – vaccines, circumcision, natural childbirth – but I’m not referring to these big bad battles. These are the biggies, and they’ll wage on through the generations. I’m talking about posts like: Is it safe to give my child cow’s milk at 12 months? Can I eat sushi while pregnant? Should I pump and dump if I have a glass of wine?

photo: MiguelPhotoBooth

photo: MiguelPhotoBooth

There is a lot of misinformation, and a lot of changing information. Then there’s the fact that everyone has a different risk threshold. There are, though, women who give advice that is in no way correct. Just utterly unfounded. And this scares me.

First, if you’re crowdsourcing your question and you decide to rely on someone because you like their profile pic, or they once liked one of your posts, then you’re in deep trouble. And if it were only about the mama, well then go ahead. But if the info is going to harm a wee once, that’s crazy.

And you see these wars rage on and on. I steer clear. I don’t want to be part of mama wars. I don’t really get it. If you need someone to fight with, should it really be someone you don’t know behind a computer monitor who is in a group you sometimes snoop? Is there really a need?

Then there are the people crowdsourcing names. That always goes sideways. It should really be a rule that your child is the first person to hear the name you’ve picked out. Because inevitable, if you crowdsource enough people, you’ll get some nasty remark, and then you won’t be happy.

But the most incredulous crowdsourcing I’ve seen to date are the brag-sourcing mamas. “My little babe is 9 months and can’t tie her shoes yet. She can sing opera in three languages, bake perfect quiche and recite all of the state capitals, but her motor skills aren’t quite what they should be. Should I be worried or wait until she’s 10 months to see if it works out?”

Sheesh. I can see why those posts go off the rails.

While baby boards are really cool and great ways to connect, sometimes it just makes me wonder – parenting is time consuming. If you’re busy waging a mama war on a baby board, who’s watching your kids!!!!

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