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What you need to know about Super Bowl according to Urban Suburban Daddy

Posted on February 5, 2016 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in Urban Suburban Daddy .

Okay, I really don’t get football. I have tried many times to understand it. I love watching soccer, basketball and even baseball. I can even rhyme off the majority of teams and players but football – I just can’t get my head around it. In fact, I find it boring. Men in tights…meh. I can leave it. I wanted to get to the bottom of the importance of Super Bowl for Urban Suburban Daddies, so I sat down with my guy at home to get the down-low!

(Urban Mommy Elisa adds: Boring? Noooooo. I can ref the game better than most officials. I think it’s one of the things that shocked and impressed my husband the first season we were together. I’d call the craziest fouls and they’d review the plays and side with me. I grew up watching football with my dad, and though I’m not a die-hard, I do understand the rules and enjoy a good game. Plus, big muscley men in tight pants – pants, not tights – sign me up! I joke that I can call the winner based on which team has the better butts! (And I’m usually right!) It’s no wonder that my loving hubby is built like  a linebacker. Just saying…)

Back to Suburban Mommy Michelle:

Apparently this year mark’s a major milestone – it’s 50 years of Super Bowl. The Denver Broncos take on The Carolina Panthers.

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Peyton Manning Denver Broncos Quarterback

The Hardware

The first thing I learned is “Go Big or Go Home.”  According to Urban Suburban Daddy, you must watch the game on a 65-inch TV or larger.  Samsung preferred.

The Exclusive Club

The second thing I learned and most important rule is that no girls are allowed.

Place your bets

Besides watching the game with your closest buds, Superbowl is about feasting on wings, pizza, nachos, drinking beer – Corona – and gambling on just about anything.

“It wouldn’t be Super Bowl without betting”, explains my Urban Suburban Daddy. So what does that mean?  My husband and his crew places wagers on some pretty crazy things.

Like…

Who will win the coin toss?  Which team will have the first interception?  Which car maker will air the first commercial?  Which beer commercial will appear first?  How long will the national anthem run?  Last year’s question involved whether or not Katy Perry would show off her cleavage during the half time show? (Apparently she did – yup, all about the ratings).

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Katy Perry takes the stage (cleavage and all) at the 2015 Super Bowl half-time show

 

The guys even bet on pizzas. They order pizza from 3 or 4 different companies and then wager which will be delivered first.

Favourite Player

According to my hubby, quarterback Peyton Manning is who he is rooting for.

Halftime Show

This year’s show features Beyoncé, Coldplay and Bruno Mars (rumoured).  Hubby’s vote goes to Bruno Mars (agreed).

Super Bowl Commercials

This was my favourite question – are the commercials worth watching?  Well they’d better be. Advertisers pay millions to air their spots. Suburban Daddy says absolutely.  Favourite commercial of all time: The Budweiser Wazzuuppp ad.

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So I am now no further ahead in understanding the love of football.

Urban Mommy Elisa adds:

Super Bowl is a bit different with my Urban Suburban Daddy. It’s about the gang getting together, cooking up the crazy foods, watching the game with whomever has the biggest TV and savouring the last and best football game of the season. It’s the love of the game (and the food). There’s beer. There may even be a bit of betting (and Vegas gives numbers on just about anything as Michelle says) but girls are allowed, and encouraged. We love the game, the commercials and the half-time show is always a must-see.

I still haven’t lived down the year I was pregnant and they caught me bawling about poor Hank the Clydesdale not making the cut in the 2008 Budweiser Super Bowl commercial.

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My husband actually went to the Super Bowl once, it’s on his life’s highlight reel. He’s nurturing our boys’ love of the game, and looks forward to the day they join the party.

If only I could find a babysitter for Sunday.

Tags: Beyonce, Bruno Mars, Carolina Panthers, Coldplay, Denver Broncos, featuredxx, Football, Super Bowl .

10 Questions with a home daycare provider

Posted on February 4, 2016 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in 10 Questions With .

We say down with Kathleen Baggio, a home daycare provider, so that we could inform parents when seeking the right childcare setting for their little ones.
kathleen daycare

Kathleen’s daycare space is warm and ideally set up for kids. (Don’t be fooled by “converted garage” this is no ordinary garage!)

1. What are the differences between a home day care and a child care centre?

The main difference is that a Home Daycare is just that – it is HOME. It isn’t in an institutional type environment, that can be at times, overwhelming for a child. Home daycare tends to be less structured than a childcare centre. There is more free play and self-expression, and taking the cue from the child as opposed to being on a tight schedule, and having to perform certain tasks at certain times throughout the day.

2. What are the benefits of sending children to a home day care?

Here are a few benefits of home daycare. There are smaller groups in home daycare, so more focus is on the child as an individual. There is more freedom throughout the day for spontaneity, instead of a full structured day filled with strictly adhered to day-to-day schedules. Home daycare can feel more comfortable to a child; they often have their own room for nap times with all their own items from home.

3. Do home daycares follow a curriculum?

Each home daycare provider is different, but in my home I am big on free play, working on fine motor skills, manners, sharing and respecting one another. For the older children who are before-and-after-school age, we work on their homework (if need be), crafts and free play. They have been in school all day and I like to make their time here full of laughter, which brings on a sense of belonging.

Kathleen dressing up for Halloween

Kathleen dressing up for Halloween

4. What should parents look for when deciding on a home day care?

There are licensed home daycares and non-licensed home daycares. Although BOTH have to stick to the “Day Nurseries Act” rules (Ontario), one is monitored while the other is not. Having said that, parents need to have an interview with the provider and listen to their gut. I like the parents to bring the child(ren) to the interview, that way the child can experience the daycare space, and everyone can start to feel comfortable right from the get go.  Let’s be honest, parents are leaving their children in Daycare for upwards of 9-10 hours, so they had better like the provider they decide to go with, as this person will have a HUGE impact on the child’s development.

5. How do you handle sickness or illness with children at your daycare?

As with any school or daycare, parents will be called from work to come and get their child if he/she is not well. Since I am the only adult, if I get ill I’d have to shut down – which would affect all the families – so keeping contagious children at home is key.

6. Do you think home daycares offer better nutrition/meals than daycare centres?

Here is the thing – kids are picky. They tend to have this tone set at home (sorry this is true, even for my own 2 kids). I NEVER force a child to eat something that they don’t like, however I encourage them to try and reward them with praise when they do try. Three cheers for (Jack) Hip Hip Hooray, and so the next time they are to try something it is easier as we’ve made it fun.

7. Are home daycares less expensive than daycare centres?

It can really go either way. I looked into this a few years back and a home daycare in Toronto, for example, for an infant was $300 a week with a waiting list, while up towards the Orangeville area it was $175 a week. A HUGE difference!

8. What sort of things would encourage you to unenroll a child from your daycare?

Over the course of my career helping to raise over 80 children, I have only ever had to do this once. I recognised some odd behaviour in a child that I knew wasn’t something I was prepared to take on. Some red flags went up for me and I had to think of the well-being of the entire group, as well as my business.

9. How important is the communication or updates you receive from parents about their children?

Communication is very important! In my contract I state that pick up and drop off times don’t always allow for updates, and that if they require a discussion they should – and are encouraged to – book a mutual time to do so. I often send text messages with photos of neat things that happen throughout the day. Makes Moms and Dads feel connected, and they truly appreciate it.

Kathleen with her family

Kathleen with her family

10. Why do you love being a home daycare provider?

This question made me smile. There are so many reasons why I love my job. I am thrilled when I see the kids reach mile stones and how happy they are to show me something that they have worked really hard to accomplish. It makes me happy when they get picked up my parents and don’t want to leave, that’s a good indicator to you Moms and Dads that your kids are in a good place.

Having said that, there are some downfalls to the job as well. For example: as I am watching your children I am usually missing MY child’s milestones, concerts, football games, Dr.’s appointment etc. My husband gets to do all those things with them. But I have been home for my kids every day when they get home from school and for that I am grateful.

kathleenKathleen Baggio was a big business owner selling to the likes of Walmart and a mother of two, who wanted to be home for her children and work at the same time. She wasn’t seeing her kids, because she was too busy working. So, she decided to become a home daycare provider, and turn her back on the corporate world. Her family moved to the country and her handy husband turned their huge garage into a daycare.  He hand painted Disney characters throughout the room, making it fun and cozy for the children. Kathleen has worked with many families over the years and has had some children with her from the age of 1, until they could be at home on their own. Being a home daycare provider is very rewarding yet challenging at times; but the benefits far out weight the challenging times.

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Tags: children, daycare, daycare provider, featuredxx, home daycare, Kathleen Baggio .

Joy and sleep deprivation

Posted on February 3, 2016 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in FML Mommy .

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Mama needs a new bag – which designer baby bag do you want?

Posted on February 3, 2016 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in Mommy Approved .

When I looked at baby bags for my first, I had no idea what I’d need, I just knew what I wanted. I’ll always kick myself for not buying the gorgeous supple leather baby bag at the Coach store when I was in Vegas for my babymoon, but I was afraid that such a beautiful bag sitting on my SUV stroller would just be a target at the park.

I should have bought the bag…

Instead, I was given an amazing baby bag by a very close friend. A Kipling bag, complete with insulated pockets, roll-out change pad and signature toy monkey. It was functional and cute. I think every mama deserves the right bag, it makes life so much easier!

Here are some drool-worthy baby bags, which one do you want?

Tory Burch Thea Baby Bag

Tory Burch Thea Baby Bag Tote

The Thea Baby Bag Tote is lined, has lots of interior pockets, a removable change pad, stroller straps and loads of style. Available in 2 colours, Bark and Black, the pebbled leather is durable and supple. $550

kate spade baby bag

Kate Spade New York Grove Court Nylon Sasha Baby Bag

Don’t you just love Kate Spade’s patterns? Love love love – though this bag comes in black too, for those that just don’t appreciate stripes. The Sasha Baby Bag is lined, has many interior compartments and has a good width and depth for storing everything a stylish mom needs on the go. The durable nylon has leather trim. Oh yah, and 14K gold plated hardware. $398

marc jacobs baby bag

Marc Jacobs Crosby Quilt Nylon Printed Fruit Elizababy

This one is just too cute! The little cherry pattern on nylon quilting is actually able to be laundered, as is the matching removable change pad. This is a comfy bag, with both over-the-shoulder and cross-body wearing options. Lots of pockets and a big interior give mama lots of storage – and the exterior pockets are perfect for easy access to a wallet and cell phone. $298

michael kors jet set baby bag

Michael Kors Jet Set Large Nylon Diaper Bag

This one is pretty sleek and styling. Who needs a purse when you’ve got an MK baby bag? Both the cross-body and over the shoulder, there is a removable change pad and lots of exterior pockets. I love those exterior pockets. It’s just as hot in navy blue. $298

prada baby bag

Prada Nylon Diaper Bag

There’s nothing like a little bit of Italian luxury to make a mama go gaga. This nylon body carries it all, in a more compact bag. Available in both navy and black, we love the sheen and leather-reinforced handles. $1,340

coach turnlock baby bag

Coach Turnlock Baby Bag in Crossgrain Leather

Love Coach? They make it easy to keep it classy, even with dipes, wipes, nuks, bottles and burp cloths in tow. (And we hear Coach was Sarah Jessica Parker’s bag of choice). In both black and blue, it’s light and durable. It’s had a lot of thought put into the design and includes lots of zips, a stroller clip, wipeable interior and removable change pad. It’s not the one I almost bought, but it would have suited me just fine. $495

rebecca minkoff baby bag

Rebecca Minkoff Yoko Quilted Moto Diaper Bag

Silver is definitely not for just any mama – can you carry this off? It’s definitely a cool bag – this one’s for birthing baby rock stars! Loving the quilted pockets and exterior zips. Straps for cross-body and shoulder. Matching change pad. $435

burberry baby bag

Burberry Mason Check-Canvas & Leather Diaper Tote Bag

The signature check on this chic baby bag makes it a great accessory for a mom on the go. Strappy and stylish, ample storage space – inside and out – gives mama lots of options. There’s a roll-out change pad, but forget about that, the gold hardware and sumptuous leather make it hard to resist. Except maybe that I need to be able to afford the diapers to put in it! $1,495

baby bag birkin

Jennifer Lopez, Victoria Beckham and Kate Moss – there’s about $50,000 in baby Birkin bags right there.

We’ve saved the best for last. It’s not everyone that can take a $10,000+ bag and stuff it full of butt paste and burp cloths, but there are more than a few A-listers that have counted on the Hermès Birkin Bag to fill the bill. Over the past few years we’ve seen Victoria Beckham, Jennifer Lopez, Kate Moss, Rachel Zoe, Katie Holmes – and of course, Kourtney and Kim Kardashian (whose Birkin is actually worth closer to $40,000) carry the coveted bags as an accessory to motherhood.

Kourtney and Kim carry their Birkins, adding another $60,000, making it over $100,000 worth of bags between these 5 celebs.

Kourtney and Kim carry their Birkins, adding another $60,000, making it over $100,000 worth of bags between these 5 celebs.

You may as well get a baby bag you love. This bag is going to be your constant companion for the next 2 years, and then add 2 years for every subsequent baby. Get the one that will stay on your shoulder, hold all your goodies – and make you look good while you’re at your busiest!

Tags: Birkin bag, designer, diaper bag, featuredxx, Kate Spade, Kim Kardashian, Marc Jacobs, Michael Kors, Prada, Tory Burch .

Superfast seafood delight

Posted on February 2, 2016 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in Delicious Dishes .
superfast seafood delight

superfast seafood delightYou either like seafood or you don’t. My boys and I love almost anything out of the ocean – but my husband won’t have any of it. (Unless it’s battered, fried and served with chips and vinegar. So, basically, no seafood.)

Since the boys and I love seafood, I make this dish when the hubby is working late and we’re short on time. It’s so easy, fast and flexible on the variation of flavours you can create.

What you need:

– 1 pound of frozen mixed seafood (premixed bags available in the freezer section)
– 3 tablespoons butter
– salt and pepper
– 1 clove of garlic or 1 teaspoon garlic powder
– rice (here’s our fool-proof rice)

What you do:

superfast seafood delightPrepare rice and set aside. You can use plain rice or take this up a notch by making lemongrass rice, ginger rice or even curry rice. It’s easy to flavour rice, just add a teaspoon or two of your favourite spice to the water when you cook your rice. Or, if you prefer, toss the cooked rice with some soy.

In a frying pan over high heat, melt the butter and add salt, pepper and garlic. When it’s melted, add the mixed seafood. Most grocery stores carry bags of frozen mixed seafood. I always keep a bag in the freezer for this meal. Our mix has shrimp, mussels, calamari and octopus. Yes, my boys love all of these. You can pick your favourite mix.

superfast seafood delightThere will be some water coming off of the frozen seafood. Let the seafood boil in it until the liquid boils off. You may want to turn down the heat when it’s almost boiled off, or watch carefully and keep tossing to ensure it doesn’t burn.

Top off rice with mixed seafood and serve.

This recipe is very basic, garlic goes with most seafood, but try different flavours:

Coconut curry: Substitute butter for coconut oil and add a heaping teaspoon of curry paste or curry powder to the mix.

Jerk seafood: I have a great jerk spice mix and add a heaping tablespoon to the mix. Note that frying cayenne can cause burning eyes and hurts to breath in, so watch carefully and don’t burn the mixture. I add the jerk seasoning when the liquid is almost boiled off and toss for 20 seconds before removing from heat and serving.

Blackbean garlic sauce: If you’re a fan of blackbean garlic sauce, then you know the jar and have one in the fridge for just such an occasion. When the liquid is reducing, turn down the heat to medium and add two heaping tablespoons to the pan and mix well.

I think I’m going to look for a Spanish Paella version next. Give it a try and let us know what your fave is!

 

Tags: calamari, delicious, easy, fast, mussels, nom, octopus, recipe, rice, seafood, shrimp .

The flat spot and the baby helmet

Posted on February 1, 2016 by urbansuburbanmommy Posted in The Struggle is Real .
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Krista Holmes shares her personal story about her family’s experience with her son having to wear a corrective helmet.

tyson helmet smilingTyson started treatment for torticollis in late 2014. After watching Tyson have a side preference for his head, I thought that it was worth looking further into.  And who knew, local treatment centre One Kids Place allowed self referrals!

Within a few weeks side preference decreased (thanks to Lisa for all of the great exercises and tips that Tyson and I had to complete on a daily basis).

At one meeting Lisa mentioned Tyson’s flat spot. She felt Tyson would be a great candidate for a helmet.

Of course, right away I was shocked! I didn’t want to believe that it was that bad. Or that my son would have to wear a helmet (thoughts quickly entered into my head of a child that I witnessed wearing one since he would bang his head into the wall). Lisa let us know a little bit more about the helmet experience, and sent the referral to our family doctor. Tyson was diagnosed with plagiocephaly – which in non medical terms means a flat spot on the head.

The first appointment consisted of a scan of Tyson’s head which would allow us to determine if we wanted to proceed with a corrective helmet for our son. The helmet would cost $2300!

$2300? I made sure that that final zero was suppose to be there. And yes, yes it was.

After a quick discussion, we agreed that $2300 was totally worth it if our son needed the helmet.

Following the scan we were informed that, although Tyson’s plagiocephaly wasn’t extreme, he was a great candidate for helmeting.

Two weeks later, in the middle of January, Ian, Tyson and I returned for the fitting. Being in Sick Kids Hospital is a surreal enough of an experience, but I always told myself, your son is here for a helmet that is simply for cosmetic purposes. There is  nothing wrong with his head. Brain. Health. It is simply a helmet to help shape his head.

tyson helmet initial fitting

Here is a picture of Tyson and me at the initial fitting.

Tyson was a great with the initial wearing of the helmet. They told us that we should try to make it to the parking lot before taking the helmet off. We went and visited a friend and her child that were living at Sick Kids, and got to the parking lot about 90 minutes later, and Tyson was still rocking the helmet!

tyson helmet toy in mouthOf course the helmet had its moments. And so did I as a mother….it sure took a toll on all of us. From 3 different infections, to the trips to and from Sick Kids, to just dealing with the daily maintenance and cleaning of the helmet, the helmet experience was a wild few months.

By July, we were almost “done” with Tyson wearing the helmet as it was getting tough – especially with the warmer weather. It was tough to see Tyson dripping sweat down his head within only 15 minutes of putting the helmet on. We almost didn’t go to our July appointment as we skipped our June appointment since Tyson hadn’t been wearing the helmet as much as he should’ve been (They wanted Tyson to wear the helmet as many as 20 hours a day! Yes – sleep with it on!). But, we decided to go.

AND, all of our hard work paid off! Tyson’s head was/is now perfectly shaped!!!!!!

tyson helmet imaging

Helmet comparison

So, to anyone debating over getting a helmet for your child, please know that although the experience is tough on everyone, the results are 100% worth it. Please do not hesitate to ask me anything about the experience as I only wish that I could’ve had someone to ask questions to (not that the staff at Sick Kids weren’t phenomenal, but from one parent to another, it is nice to have someone to ask, especially when you feel like quitting). When we left Sick Kids for the last time, believe me, we were all smiling!

After learning about helmeting from Krista’s experience, Urban Suburban Mommy had a few questions, which Krista was kind enough to answer:

USM: Is the flat spot potentially dangerous medically, or is correcting it more cosmetic?

Krista: The flat spot was totally cosmetic.

USM: Will it correct on its own if left without helmeting?

Krista: It would not correct on its own, so that’s why we knew that we “had to” helmet him.  We didn’t want him coming to us when he was 16 and saying that he was getting made fun of when we could’ve done something about it.

USM: Do they like to correct it by a certain age?

Krista: We started the helmeting at the youngest age possible – 6 months. The later it is “found”, the longer they have to wear the helmet.  Tyson’s head was obviously still growing (and we got new scans every visit) so it was a great time to shape it.

This article first appeared on MommyLovesMusic.Wordpress.com

Krista HolmsKrista Holmes, KH Mgmt, became a mother in the summer of 2014. She works behind-the-scenes in the Canadian music industry, designs several social media campaigns and manages special events. Her love for motherhood & music can be found on her blog, mommylovesmusic.wordpress.com.

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Tags: corrective helmet, helmet, helmet wearing, One Kids Place, plagiocephaly, scan, Sick Kids, torticollis .
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